Laid Off…Again

Dear Judy, I was recently laid off…again. This time it’s tougher to find another job because there are fewer of them, plus I’m over 65. I don’t have good enough retirement to not work and Social Security doesn’t cut it. Last week someone said to me, “Do you think your age has anything to do with your not finding work?” I hadn’t even considered that because I don’t feel old and I’m healthy! Yikes. He’s right. Who wants to hire a 68-year-old??? Now I feel more scared. What if I don’t find work? What if…. All my life I’ve worked, since I was 13. I guess I took my identity from my jobs. My sense of worth. My value. Now, I feel like a has-been. Now what? Some days I just want to stay in bed and sleep all day.

Dear Valued One!

Getting laid off might have caught you by surprise, but not your Lord. Take comfort in that! Still, getting laid off is tough and it is happening to a lot of people. You did not say if you are a Christian or not. If you are not, then I am afraid you only have the job market and this economy to rely on which is very shaky indeed!

If you are a Christian, you know you have the Lord Jesus Christ on your side. He is the One you need to be taking your identify from, not a job! Get in the Bible which is full of promises for us to claim. Hebrews 13:5-6 says, “…be content with such things as you have. For He Himself [Jesus] has said, ‘I will never leave you nor forsake you.’ So we may boldly say: ‘The LORD is my helper; I will not fear. What can man do to me?’”

Isaiah 46:4 is one of my favorites: “Even to your old age, I am He, and even to gray hairs I will carry you! I have made, and I will bear; even I will carry, and will deliver you.” This speaks to me about a God who knows my needs and has handled every single thing that affects me. And about your age, remember that with age come experience, wisdom and knowledge.

As we get older we need to slow down a bit, but if you need to continue working, I believe the Lord will open the doors for you. It may take a little longer, but trust Him in this. Don’t give up. The Lord wants His children to be successful and to prosper. He knows what we need even before we know we need it!

Recent Dear Judy Posts

struggling ale looking in mirror
By Dr. Judy Baus September 2, 2025
I am somewhat of a new believer. I struggle with who I am and my past HUGE mistakes. How do I get beyond all of this?
Cloudy sky
By Dr. Judy Baus August 6, 2025
Many people are confused by this question. But before I answer it, I want to make clear that there is a real heaven and a real hell! Everyone goes to one place or the other—their choice! So, no, everyone does not go to heaven, but everyone will go somewhere when they die.
man with tattoos praying
By Dr. Judy Baus July 6, 2025
Will people always speak in tongues after getting saved?
mass of books and papers
By Dr. Judy Baus June 2, 2025
My life is a mess! I know I have done so many things wrong. I have hurt so many people. I call myself a Christian, so how do I make all this right?
Show More

Recent Food For Thought Articles

Child’s toy in middle of disaster
By Dr. Judy Baus September 2, 2025
So many horrible things are happening in our world today—children and adults gunned down in the middle of prayer, lives being destroyed by wars, famines, floods, fires, absolute madness– and if we allow ourselves to focus totally on these things, fear can totally take over and then we will become victims instead of a v
Runner at start
By Dr. Judy Baus August 6, 2025
We are eternal beings, and we shall live for eternity somewhere! If we think we are saved, we are not! We must KNOW without a shadow of a doubt that we are born from above and have both an earthly address and a heavenly address. This is done by accepting Jesus as our Savior and living for HIM!
Focus sign
By Dr. Judy Baus July 6, 2025
I see so many believers focusing on world events and the despair in our world. That may well be a focus for the unbeliever but certainly not for a believer! If we read our manual for success (Bible) and obey what it is teaching us, then we will have all our focus on Jesus and the cross! Jesus did everything for us on t
Potter's hands with clay
By Dr. Judy Baus June 2, 2025
The Lord speaks to us through His manual for success (Bible). But are we listening? We are living in very evil times, but we can also see revival among people if we watch Christian News. When people get saved in great numbers, we need to pray for them to truly get connected. A merely emotional experience is not becoming born again. Conversion is believing that the Lord Jesus Christ went to the cross, died, and rose again, and we ask Him to forgive our sin.
Show More